2015-01-03 00:16:55

As marijuana becomes legal in some states; more individuals are smoking, eating, and even growing pot! Parents know their kids are susceptible to peer pressure – so it's important to detect if they're getting involved with any substances. Fortunately, there are simple ways of detecting whether or not your child is smoking marijuana.

If your child comes home reeking of pot, that doesn't necessarily mean they've smoked the plant – it could be that your teen stood up to peer pressure and walked out! So before you jump the gun, it's never too early to communicate with your teen. You could start off by asking if anything's going on, or if there's anything they'd like to share with you and listen to them. Talking and communicating are not the same, listen to what your child has to say.

Items of Concern:

If you find a pipe, rolling paper, vaporizer or other marijuana paraphernalia in their possession, it's likely your child is smoking pot. Again, it's essential you open the conversation in a non-confrontational manner. Lashing out at your teen isn't the solution.

Teens Using Marijuana items of Concern

Start taking a close look at your child's behavior – is he rambling on, or giggling every time you open your mouth? These are strong signs that your child may be stoned! Another red flag to watch out for, is your teen's grades. If you notice a significant drop in their overall school performance, this could indicate substance abuse.

Physical Signs to Watch Out For:

Let's face it, most parents tried pot back in their college days and know some of the more obvious signs. Glassy-eyes and cotton-mouth are two of the most common symptoms of smoking marijuana. The latter could also be caused by medications, but if you know your child's not taking any; it might be time to sit down and chat.

Face to Face:

For the most part, teens are more likely to defy parental control because they want more independence. When it's time to chat, be prepared! Use logic to point out the downsides of smoking pot, and the importance of getting a good education.

Face to Face conversation with your teen about Drug Use

In your conversation, make sure to point out scientifically proven side effects from smoking pot. If their grades are dropping, point out how this could prevent them from entering their dream college. In the end, finish off by saying how drug abuse can come back to haunt them in the future – give examples of celebrities who smoke.


As the legalization of marijuana spreads to some states, the accessibility of marijuana infused foods makes it difficult to pinpoint drug intake. Calmly talking with your kids is the best way to confront this situation. Discussing the possible health related side effects, as well as losing sight of their future goals may encourage them to stop smoking pot.

My Teen SMOKING WEED! What Should I Do? by Dr Paul

Go Back To The Top